01. Why
Outfit planning is the worst, isn't it?! We know. We've done so many brainstorming calls over outfits and sometimes get to the shoot with an astounding ZERO options, so we've decided to put together a guide so all of your answers are here.
YOU WANT IT TO BE PERFECT.
YOU WANT IT TO BE TIMELESS.
Here's the thing, y'all. There is no such thing as perfect and who the heck decides what's timeless or not!? You know what I say to 'Timeless Fashion?" Timeless fashion never met 6 year old Ashley B. looking through mom's photo albums loving every fashion choice her mother made in 1982. If mother Deb would have worn only what would have been timeless, I wouldn't know that I'm looking at photos from the eighties... and photos of what my mom was actually like back then. Your style shows your personality. Don't hide that for 'timeless' clothes, guys.
REFLECT WHO YOU ARE. WEAR YOUR FAVORITE BROKEN-IN TEE.
You don't need to go shopping and if you do, you absolutely don't need to spend a fortune. We'd so much rather you wear shit that makes you already feel like Beyonce and you know it, because you've worn it before and you feel confident AF.
02. Options
you don't have to follow these guidelines,
but we hope they help!
you look best when you're not trying to be anyone
but yourselves
Bring a few outfits for your shoot. Bring as many as you'd like. Anything in your closet that you LOVE to wear and gravitate towards. I know this will make your fiance extra happy too, because you know he wants to bring his favorite tee. The more options you have with you, the easier it will be for us to pick outfits that match your location while also nailing your personal style. We typically aim for two but can photograph more. Just know the more you photograph, the less photos you'll get because of all of the time changing.
03. Personalities
EDGY / PLAYFUL / HAPPY / INTIMATE / COZY
Are you both more intimate together naturally or are you more cozy and cuddly? If you're ready to take on the town on a typical Saturday night, rock something that shows off your confidence (but isn't a restricting outfit - we'll get into that later.) If you'd rather Netflix and chill, please please please don't wear heels to your engagement shoot. Be true to who you are and own it.
04. Let's be real
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. PRACTICALITY.
If there's one thing that's really difficult, it's heels. Sure, heels make you look sexy but really, how often do you wear heels? And how much do you love to waltz around in heels? Simply, don't bring heels as your only option. If we're going in nature, this doesn't make sense. If we're going downtown - this COULD make sense. Just be logical with your decisions. If you want more of an adventure shoot, don't bring a satin tight-fitting bodycon dress, ya know? If we're building a campfire, DO bring a cozy sweater to layer up, a tee and some cozy denim. THAT makes sense and we're all about making sense around here.
Simply, remember where you are and what season you're in. Dress for that.
05. Details
If you see wind or feel wind in your hair, please don't panic. It makes the absolute prettiest movement so be sure to include a couple of things that could really show that off in case we have a windy day. It's seriously sometimes our favorite.
wind is dope.
We're human. We're imperfect and that's fine, but like I've said before... whatever makes you feel like Beyonce... DO IT. You will undoubtedly lose 50% of the makeup you're wearing in camera and professionals know how to kill it. We highly recommend getting your makeup done for your engagement and wedding day - and if you don't want to simply chance it for wedding day, your engagement session is a great way to see if it's for you but lashes... if we could require them, we would.
lashes (+ Pro Makeup)
awesome LOCAL makeup pros:
ICT: LAVISHED CITY | BROOKE CERO | BEAUTY CALL
KC: DANI JO BELLOMY
06. Colors
To keep it simple, neutrals are always a good idea
The simpler, the better. Neutrals are always a win and earth tones are as well.
Know your skin tone and wear colors that compliment your skin tone.
Feel welcome to text your outfits to (316) 494-3571. We can hash it out together!
07. Patterns + Accessories
patterns and accessories can be the best, but they can also be the worst.
For the most part, avoid large and in charge patterns and stick to smaller, not distracting patterns. Large and busy patterns can create a really busy photo which can take away from the most important part... you two. Stripes, flannels and small florals are a go - usually.
Chunky necklaces aren't our fave but have you loved those dainty pieces of jewelry?! YES PLEASE. That paired with cute rings, etc. That's perfect.
Sunglasses, hats, glasses, rings (ALL the rings) earrings, bracelets. ALL yesses in our humble opinon. ;)
all the yes!
If you have a four-legged pal that's basically your child, please bring him. We'll allocate 15 minutes to this. Just make sure you have a friend/fam that can pick him up after 15 minutes so you don't have to worry about Ole' Yeller in the back of the car because noone wants that. Other props that are cute could be wine, pizza, confetti, guitars, kayaks - anything that means something. - If it doesn't mean something, ex-nay it.
Pups + Props
GALLERY DELIVERY
We know you’ll be on pins and needles enough as it is so we don’t want to keep you waiting any longer. We always deliver your full gallery within 3 weeks of your wedding day so you can relive the memories shortly after your big day! If for some reason, something comes up, we will always do our best to keep you in the loop.
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DEPOSIT
We require a $900 nonrefundable deposit when booking your wedding date with us. This keeps us committed to one another and you can rest assured your wedding date is locked down. Payment plans are available and customizable!
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TRAVEL
Have camera, will travel! We’re just as adventurous as you are so we CAN’T WAIT to travel to your destination. If you’re outside the Wichita or Kansas City area, we’ll talk over travel costs and plans before booking your wedding date so you know what to expect.
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Downtown, Nature, In-Home. Take your pick but stay true to who you are! We'll shoot at the vibe of your choice and aim to stay within a 10 minute drive of your starting location so we're not spending an unnecessary amount of time in the car.
In home sessions are some of the best ways to start an engagement session. If you'd like to incorporate the home you share, we'll start in your house and move into your neighborhood before going onto your second location. Keep in mind to clean, open all of your blinds, and declutter any naturally lit areas.
09. Locations
schedule an engagement planning call